SEX; It’s not just for procreation!

SEX; It’s not just for procreation! Let’s do some research first and then I will give you guys my opinion.  “Some say that being gay is wrong because there is no way to procreate. (While procreation for gays is impossible, the right or wrong aspect of gay sex is debate for another day!) If that is so, then sex between a sterile man and /or a barren woman can't be justified either since there is no way for them to procreate.    The sex for procreation only argument is unscriptural. Let's look at the two examples in the Bible where sex took place for procreation only (by the way even incest was used to “procreate” so let’s reserve judgment  for a later time): 1. Abraham and Hagar In Genesis chapter 16 we find the story of Abraham and Sarah. God had promised Abraham a son but Sarah was barren. After trying with no success Sarah decided to take matters into her own hands and in Genesis 16:1,2 she tells Abraham to sleep with her handmaiden so that he could build a family through her.                     Genesis 16:1-2 Now Sarah, Abram's wife, had borne him no children. But she had an Egyptian maidservant named Hagar; so she said to Abram, "The LORD has kept me from having children. Go, sleep with my maidservant; perhaps I can build a family through her." Abram agreed to what Sarah said.   I don't think Sarah really meant for her husband to just sleep with the maid since that's not how you make babies. She was telling him to have sex with her. The sex for procreation only between Abraham and Hagar was not what God wanted. The child, Ishmael, was born from that union.    God blessed him but made it very clear that he was not the son of the promise. In fact, at one point God didn't even recognize Ishmael once Isaac was born from Sarah about 14 years later. (Genesis 22:1,2).    Ishmael ended up being the father of the Arabs. Because of this union of sex for procreation only, there continues to be animosity between Arabs and Jews who are indeed brothers!! 2. Lot and His Daughters In this account Lot's daughters feel an urgency to procreate. The only available man is their father. They decided to get their father drunk so they could get pregnant by him.                     Genesis 19:30-38 Lot and his two daughters left Zoar and settled in the mountains, for he was afraid to stay in Zoar. He and his two daughters lived in a cave. One day the older daughter said to the younger, "Our father is old, and there is no man around here to lie with us, as is the custom all over the earth. Let's get our father to drink wine and then lie with him and preserve our family line through our father." 

Why do women stop having sex after marriage?

Why do women stop having sex after marriage????

  

  I have had this discussion with a lot of my girlfriends, and I think that it depends on the reason why you got married in the first place. Long before we decide to get married, sex is all based on hormones (pheromones); pure lust.

  Most women still experience that giddy feeling; head over heals in love. In the beginning it’s fresh and new. You and your partner have not yet discovered all of the little quirks that eventually annoy each other yet! Therefore it’s the best sex! It’s raw and full of discovery because you’re less inhibited and will try anything and do it anywhere.

What happens after the honeymoon is over when it comes to fashion?

  I hate to say this and it’s going ruffle a few fetters, but I have noticed that many women only dress-up when they are in the courtship process. They dress up and go on dates, smelling like a million dollar woman in spike heels (my favorite). But what happens when a woman gets married? Why dos she stop dressing up, putting on the spike heels, smelling good? Why do women stop?  To be honest I really don’t know. 

 When I got married to the love of my life, ‘Papi’, I had a lot of people at work asking me things like “why do you keep dressing up? You already caught your husband.  Well for your information I have never dressed up to be on a man hunt; I dress up because I love it …. I love the whole girly thing.   

 I know that we are all busy mothers, students, wives and workers, but does that mean that because we got married we have to look like s#@t all the time?   I know, I know, sometimes I do not feel like dressing up, but I know my husband does appreciated when he comes home to a hot good looking woman. Naked in heels and a tie (so “Pretty Woman”)!  

 Just to let you in on a little secret, I have been really sick lately and unable to wear my lovely heels, but I still have them and I am hoping to get back on my heels one day.  Let’s keep it real; what man wants to come home after a hard day of work to a woman who smells like onions, or baby diapers, hair and house a mess… Suck it up sister!   

 Try to make some time for you, keep your hair groomed, your nails and toes done, shave yourself down there (groom the garden girls), use perfume and deodorant. Do you really need a lesson?  How can you tell when the honeymoon is over? What are the signs? Is there anything you can do to keep the honeymoon stage from ending too soon?  

 Add your advice and insights ladies… Happy Heeling!

My Sexual Heeling

So why do Real Men tend to enjoy seeing women in high heels?

  There are various reasons for this. One is that the woman is perceived to be taller. This change is that her perceived height makes her seem slimmer since her weight appears  distributed through her new height.

 The other reason for attraction to women in heels is from the posture that women are in when wearing them. If you simply stand in your normal posture and then raise your body so that you are standing on the balls of your feet you can easily observe the difference. There are two main differences. The first is that when you are in heel position you can feel the muscles in you buttocks being tightened. The second is that your chest is pushed outward. Both of these actions accentuate areas of sexual interest in the eyes of men.

 So chicas, wear your heels like you never wore them before! Happy Heeling!

Admirable Intentions

Do women dress to impress men or other women? 

Some say that women dress to be admired by other women. Well I don’t know about that, but I can tell you this; my whole entire life I always loved to dress up. You name it, heels, make up, nice dress , a nice hair do or a nice hair cut.

 I love that in every place that I have ever worked,  I have gotten, and still get  a LOT of complements about my dress and how I carried my self; my shoes, my make up and even my feet. Furthermore, most of those nice compliments have come from women.

 Don’t get me wrong, I get a lot of attention from men too, but women are more detailed in what they see on my body, and I love it. Walking through the halls at my place of employment is one of the best forms of therapy this woman can get.

 What is your opinion, do we dress to be admired by our own sex or for the opposite sex?

Ladies, leave your opinions and keep the sexual heeling going; Happy Heeling!

The Story of Heels

 During the 18th century, there were essentially no toilets or latrines in France. Basically, they used a piece of paper or cloth to wrap up the s@#t and then throw it outside into the streets. In many ways, they were pigs! They hadn't figured out a way to more sanitarilly dispose of their own waste. So you could say that the streets of Paris were full of s@#t during that time.

 The same thing happened in the palace as well, so to prevent the King from stepping in his own s@#t, soiling his majesty's pant-legs, the royal designers came up with a type of shoe for his highness which had high heels.

 All of France, men and women alike, eventually started wearing high heel shoes. However, as time went by, men abandoned the idea, but the women liked them so much that it soon became fashionable.

 So ladies, the next time you wear a pair of high heels, remember the very first reason for their existence and appreciate that you are not wearing them for that same reason.

Happy Heeling!